It is natural for most campers to experience some degree of homesickness, especially if it's their first time away from home. It's not uncommon for parents to receive a homesick letter, only to call camp and learn that homesick feelings have passed and the camper is now having fun!
How we help:
- Our Family Group Leaders plan the first few hours in detail to help campers feel comfortable
- Campers quickly engage in games and icebreakers to make new friends
- Staff are trained in strategies to help homesick campers
- Our counselors are excellent listeners and create a supportive environment
How you can help before camp:
- Have the conversation: Talk about camp and stress that challenges help children grow. Mention that homesickness is normal.
- Develop strategies: Discuss things your camper can do to make bedtime easier (when homesickness often arises)
- Practice at home: Have younger campers practice their daily routine independently
- Use positive language: Focus on what they're looking forward to, not potential problems
- Write encouraging letters: Drop off pre-written letters at check-in so they arrive during the first few days
AVOID the "Pick-Up Deal": Never say "If you feel homesick, I'll come get you." This undermines your camper's confidence and becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Focus on encouraging them to embrace this new experience!
If homesickness persists:
- If a camper wants to call home, directors will consult with the counselor first
- One of our directors will call parents to discuss the situation
- We consult with parents on how best to address the issue
- Several options are possible, with the best solution being active involvement and staying at camp
- Phone calls are limited to 5 minutes under staff supervision (and often make things worse)
- Picking up early is the last resort
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